I’ve been thinking about this question a lot lately, as I do more and more writing on this page, as I try to do more and more advocacy, AND as we prepare to launch a progressive community site for the city. There are some truths that I operate from, that seem to be at odds with each other:
- Silence is not an option.
- Bad ideas, policies, and actions must be challenged.
- Change only happens when either the leaders decree it (top-down) or when enough people want it (bottom-up).
- Evil must be challenged. (And yes, there are “evil” acts and other things in the world.*)
- People themselves are not evil.
- Satire and snark are sometimes the best way to call out bad ideas, bad policies, and bad actions.
- We are all part of the human race, and brothers and sisters because of that.
- You don’t mistreat your brothers and sisters.
- Hate is not an option.
So, on the one hand, we have to be active in the fight against the bad, willing to call out others and take unpopular stands, hoping to win enough people over to our side to effect change from the bottom-up. On the other hand, we must do it in such a way that we do not hate, we must not turn those we oppose into the Other, and we must remember that ultimately we are one family.
This is hard. To do this well and consistently is really, really hard.
But we must find a way.
So, here are some guidelines I’m adopting for myself, and possibly for this new site I’m helping launch:
Read moreHow to Fight for Change Without Being Mean